{"id":11471,"date":"2024-09-27T23:34:41","date_gmt":"2024-09-27T23:34:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=11471"},"modified":"2024-09-27T23:34:41","modified_gmt":"2024-09-27T23:34:41","slug":"my-contractor-left-the-job-half-done-i-showed-him-why-you-dont-mess-with-a-single-mom-of-3-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=11471","title":{"rendered":"My Contractor Left the Job Half-Done \u2013 I Showed Him Why You Don\u2019t Mess with a Single Mom of 3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-11472 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I always wondered why people said being a single mom was difficult. My friends and family were supportive, so I thought I had it figured out. That changed when I faced a situation that left me fuming with anger.<\/p>\n<p>Before I dive into that, let me introduce myself. I\u2019m Eliza, a single mom of three. My ex-husband cheated on me and, despite his empty promises to change, I finally kicked him out after catching him with his mistress.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I\u2019ve been living with my kids\u2014Chelsea (10), Trevor (8), and Kayla (6)\u2014for two years. My life revolves around them, but I was still adjusting to managing everything alone, including home repairs. My brother usually helped, but when my kitchen drain clogged, I had to hire a contractor.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s when I realized how some people treat single mothers. A few months ago, I discovered the blockage while washing dishes. I tried my usual hacks, but nothing worked, and I ended up washing dishes in the bathroom.<\/p>\n<p>After calling my brother for help, he recommended I hire a professional. A friend suggested Mark, claiming he was one of the best. Mark came over, examined the problem, and convinced me to remodel the kitchen, promising it would save me future headaches. The quote seemed reasonable, so I decided to go for it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-11472\" src=\"http:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/461408774_933365688834480_1670519817485627031_n.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mark started work two days later. My kids were curious but he was surprisingly kind to them. Everything went smoothly until he didn\u2019t show up one day. I figured he was busy and waited another day. After three days, I called him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh, Eliza,\u201d he said nonchalantly, \u201cI\u2019m working on another job. I\u2019ll swing by later.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Later turned into a week, and when I called again, he ignored me. I knew he was taking advantage of me because I was a single mother. That made me furious.<\/p>\n<p>I decided to take action. I snapped photos of my half-done kitchen\u2014cabinets hanging at odd angles, exposed wires, and broken pipes\u2014and posted them in local home improvement groups on Facebook. I wrote, \u201cI hired this contractor named Mark on a friend\u2019s recommendation. He vanished before finishing my kitchen. Has anyone else experienced this?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The comments flooded in. Other locals shared their own horror stories about Mark. Even my brother, Adam, was shocked when I told him.<\/p>\n<p>Two days later, Mark called, panicked. \u201cI\u2019ve been hearing some things online\u2026 People are saying I\u2019m not finishing jobs. That\u2019s not true, right?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWell, Mark,\u201d I replied calmly, \u201cmaybe you should focus on finishing the work you started.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hours later, he texted me, promising to finish the job if I helped him get the negative reviews taken down. He arrived the next day with his crew and worked faster than I\u2019d ever seen. Once the job was done, he asked me to remove my post and leave a good review.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ll think about it,\u201d I told him. But I had no intention of taking it down.<\/p>\n<p>Mark thought he could disregard me because I was a single mother. He messed with the wrong person.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back, I realize that if Adam had been around, Mark wouldn\u2019t have dared to cross me. I learned that I could handle things myself, and I wouldn\u2019t let anyone take advantage of me or my situation.<\/p>\n<p>Everything happens for a reason, and I finally understand why.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I always wondered why people said being a single mom was difficult. My friends and family were supportive, so I thought I had it figured out. 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