{"id":25021,"date":"2025-04-04T22:54:54","date_gmt":"2025-04-04T22:54:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=25021"},"modified":"2025-04-04T22:54:54","modified_gmt":"2025-04-04T22:54:54","slug":"this-month-we-have-a-separate-budget-said-mikhail-setting-aside-his-mug-with-unfinished-coffee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=25021","title":{"rendered":"This month we have a separate budget,\u00bb said Mikhail, setting aside his mug with unfinished coffee."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-25022 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/488886922_630537596478967_4824105345118791166_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/488886922_630537596478967_4824105345118791166_n.jpg 960w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/488886922_630537596478967_4824105345118791166_n-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/488886922_630537596478967_4824105345118791166_n-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/488886922_630537596478967_4824105345118791166_n-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Anna raised her eyes to him. There was no surprise or outrage in them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abAlright,\u00bb she said.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail blinked. He had expected something different: questions, complaints, perhaps even tears. He had prepared arguments, phrases like \u00abIt\u2019s fair,\u00bb \u00abThis will be just,\u00bb \u00abEach will be responsible for their own expenses.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>And in response \u2014 just \u00abalright.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>\u00abSo you don\u2019t mind?\u00bb he asked, feeling a slight irritation rising within him.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abNo,\u00bb Anna shrugged. \u00abYou decided, so it\u2019s settled.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>He snorted, trying to detect a catch. Shouldn\u2019t she be upset? Or at least ask what this means for her? But no. She sat there, calmly stirring sugar into her tea.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abI thought we would discuss this,\u00bb he said.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abDidn\u2019t you decide?\u00bb her voice was soft, slightly mocking.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail didn\u2019t know what to say. Of course, he decided. He had calculated everything: income, expenses, the need for balance. The family budget had always weighed heavily on him \u2014 endless talks about \u00abwe need to buy,\u00bb \u00abwe need to pay,\u00bb \u00abwhere do we get the money.\u00bb A separate budget seemed like a logical solution.<\/p>\n<p>But now, looking at his wife, he felt a strange unease.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t argue.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t resist.<\/p>\n<p>She just accepted it as a fact.<\/p>\n<p>And somehow, this scared him more than if she had started a scene.<\/p>\n<p>The house smelled of stewed vegetables. Anna was standing by the stove, lazily stirring the contents of the pot. She didn\u2019t add spices randomly, didn\u2019t taste it. She was just cooking \u2014 without inspiration, without any desire to impress.<\/p>\n<p>Their daughter, Lisa, silently set the table. Her movements were quick and familiar, but every so often she would glance at her mother with a brief, wary look.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMum, did you forget the sauce?\u201d she asked.<\/p>\n<p>Anna shook her head.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cToday, no sauce.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lisa frowned but didn\u2019t say anything.<\/p>\n<p>When Mikhail walked into the kitchen, he immediately sensed a change. The usual family dinner \u2014 but something was missing. Comfort? Or maybe that faint sense of warmth that always filled the air?<\/p>\n<p>Anna served the plates, sat down at the table, and began eating.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abI thought we should officially confirm that, from today, we have separate budgets,\u00bb Mikhail declared, trying to sound firm.<\/p>\n<p>Lisa looked up in surprise.<\/p>\n<p>Anna calmly shrugged.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abAlright.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>And that was it.<\/p>\n<p>No questions, no discussions.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail put down his fork and looked at his wife carefully.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abAre you sure you understand everything?\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>\u00abOf course,\u00bb she replied, taking another small sip of water.<\/p>\n<p>He felt irritation. Why wasn\u2019t she arguing? Why wasn\u2019t she asking how the money would be divided? Why was she just\u2026 agreeing?<\/p>\n<p>Lisa awkwardly moved her glass.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMum, are you alright?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna smiled at her daughter.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes. Everything is fine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But Lisa felt that it wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail felt it too.<\/p>\n<p>An invisible tension hung in the air, noticeable but unspoken, like a cold draft.<\/p>\n<p>The morning started with an annoying little thing.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail reached for clean socks, but there was only one pair left in the drawer \u2014 the very one he usually saved \u00abfor an emergency.\u00bb Last night, he had been sure that Anna would do the laundry as usual.<\/p>\n<p>But here they were, the socks, just as he left them.<\/p>\n<p>He opened the bathroom cupboard \u2014 the laundry basket was full.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail grimaced but said nothing.<\/p>\n<p>In the kitchen, Anna was already sitting at the table, drinking tea. She didn\u2019t even turn her head when he entered.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDid we run out of tea?\u201d he asked, looking in the cupboard.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes,\u201d Anna replied calmly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd\u2026?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She took a sip.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd I have my tea.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail turned around. In her hands was a cup of something fragrant, spicy. But there was no black tea, the one he drank every morning.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDidn\u2019t you buy it?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna looked at him over her cup.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abWe have a separate budget,\u00bb she reminded him. \u00abI buy what I need.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail pressed his lips together.<\/p>\n<p>Well, fine. He would drink coffee.<\/p>\n<p>But the coffee in the jar was almost gone.<\/p>\n<p>He glanced at his wife \u2014 she was calmly flipping through something on her phone.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDon\u2019t you ask how I\u2019m doing?\u201d he asked after a pause.<\/p>\n<p>Anna raised her head for a second.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDid I used to ask?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail opened his mouth but couldn\u2019t find an answer. Of course, she used to ask. Every evening. \u00abHow was your day?\u00bb \u00abHow\u2019s work?\u00bb He hadn\u2019t even noticed how accustomed he\u2019d gotten to these simple questions.<\/p>\n<p>And now she didn\u2019t ask.<\/p>\n<p>He sat down across from her, crossed his arms.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDid you decide to shut me out?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna tilted her head slightly, looked at him thoughtfully.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo,\u201d she replied. \u201cIt\u2019s just\u2026 a separate budget isn\u2019t just about money.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She took another sip of tea, as if this didn\u2019t concern her at all.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail felt the house had become strangely quiet.<\/p>\n<p>Lisa sat at the table, lazily twirling pasta with her fork.<\/p>\n<p>Dinners used to be different. Mum would come up with something, experiment with recipes. Dad would grumble that \u00abwe don\u2019t need to complicate things,\u00bb but always ate heartily. But now\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMum, no salad today?\u201d Lisa asked cautiously.<\/p>\n<p>Anna shrugged.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you want, you can make some.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lisa frowned. Usually, Mum prepared everything in advance, set the table nicely, put the food in warm bowls so it would be convenient for everyone. Now, there were only plates with pasta and fried chicken on the table.<\/p>\n<p>Dad noticed too.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019ve kind of\u2026 just started cooking,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Anna looked at him with mild surprise.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes? Don\u2019t you miss something?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He felt her words were not a challenge, but a genuine question.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJust\u2026,\u201d Mikhail glanced at their daughter, who was quietly sitting with her eyes cast down. \u201cIt\u2019s not the same as before.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna nodded and continued eating.<\/p>\n<p>Lisa felt her mother had changed. She wasn\u2019t angry, wasn\u2019t sad \u2014 on the contrary, she seemed calm, but\u2026 distant. Like it no longer mattered to her what happened at the table.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe have a separate budget now,\u201d Anna calmly reminded them.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail grimaced.<\/p>\n<p>Lisa glanced from one parent to the other.<\/p>\n<p>Dinners used to be warm. They\u2019d talk, share news, even argue sometimes. Now, silence hung at the table.<\/p>\n<p>And somehow, this silence was heavier than any shouting.<\/p>\n<p>In the evening, Mikhail silently put several bills on the kitchen table.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is for the groceries,\u201d he said, not looking up.<\/p>\n<p>Anna looked at the money but didn\u2019t take it immediately.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow much is here?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEnough,\u201d he replied, looking at his phone.<\/p>\n<p>Anna nodded, put the money in her wallet, and didn\u2019t ask any more questions.<\/p>\n<p>The next day, she walked through the store with a shopping cart, carefully selecting items. For the first time in many years, she didn\u2019t think about what Mikhail liked.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t buy the sausage he usually ate for breakfast.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t take his favorite cheese, didn\u2019t put his favorite snacks in the cart.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, there were fruits for Lisa, yogurt, green tea, and a nice piece of fish she had long wanted to try.<\/p>\n<p>At the checkout, Anna realized she felt strangely\u2026 free.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t think, \u00abDoes Mikhail eat this?\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>She bought what she needed for herself and her daughter.<\/p>\n<p>When she got home and started putting away the groceries, Mikhail looked in the fridge.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhere\u2019s my cheese?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna didn\u2019t even turn around.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat cheese?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou know which one,\u201d he grunted, opening one drawer, then another. \u201cDidn\u2019t you buy it?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo,\u201d she replied calmly. \u201cI bought what Lisa and I needed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He froze, as if he didn\u2019t immediately understand the meaning of her words.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut I gave you the money.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna smiled and shrugged.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes. And I spent it on food.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t say \u00abour food.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail closed the fridge.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly, he felt uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail opened the fridge again and froze.<\/p>\n<p>Something was\u2026 off.<\/p>\n<p>Yogurts in neat rows, fresh vegetables in a container, a jar of berries, a bottle of mineral water.<\/p>\n<p>But no beer.<\/p>\n<p>No sausage \u2014 the one he always ate with his sandwiches in the morning.<\/p>\n<p>He reached for the shelf, instinctively checked, as if it had slid to the back. No.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail frowned.<\/p>\n<p>Anna walked into the kitchen, ignoring him. She took a yogurt from the fridge and sat down at the table.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou didn\u2019t buy sausage?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She wasn\u2019t even surprised by the question.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She made a little circle with her spoon in the yogurt as if thinking about the answer.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t need it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail chuckled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut I do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna looked at him indifferently.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen buy it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t know how to respond.<\/p>\n<p>It used to be different. He used to just live \u2014 open the fridge, take what he wanted, not think about where it came from.<\/p>\n<p>But now\u2026<\/p>\n<p>He felt a strange sensation rising inside.<\/p>\n<p>Not anger.<\/p>\n<p>Not hurt.<\/p>\n<p>But some cold, sticky realization.<\/p>\n<p>Anna didn\u2019t care about him anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, Anna, closing the cupboard with the cereals, thought:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI always thought it would be harder without him. That without his participation, his control, his salary, life would stop. But it seems that\u2019s not the case.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She took another slow sip of tea.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt seems, it\u2019s even easier.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail opened the fridge again.<\/p>\n<p>No, it wasn\u2019t just his imagination.<\/p>\n<p>The shelves looked unfamiliar: instead of the usual set \u2014 sausage, cheese, cans of beer \u2014 there was now some\u2026 order. Everything was neatly arranged, without chaos, but most importantly \u2014 without him.<\/p>\n<p>Yogurts with fruit labels.<\/p>\n<p>Containers with vegetables.<\/p>\n<p>Light snacks he wouldn\u2019t have touched.<\/p>\n<p>He closed the door, then opened it again, as if hoping his favorite smoked sausage would suddenly appear from thin air.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAre you eating like a fitness blogger now?\u201d he sneered, glancing at his wife who was standing by the stove.<\/p>\n<p>Anna didn\u2019t react immediately, just calmly stirred the contents of the pot.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI buy what Lisa and I need,\u201d she said in a neutral tone.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail snorted.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd I\u2019m not needed?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna turned, met his gaze.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe have a separate budget,\u201d she reminded him with a slight smile.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail clenched his jaw but didn\u2019t say anything.<\/p>\n<p>At that moment, Anna suddenly caught herself thinking a strange thought.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI always thought it would be harder without him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She had been used to these constant thoughts: needing to buy, needing to cook, needing to please.<\/p>\n<p>But now she just\u2026 didn\u2019t think about it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut it seems that\u2019s not the case.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For the first time in a long while, she felt light.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail stretched, yawned, and, as always, first went to the kitchen. The morning started the same: hot coffee, a few minutes of silence, then a shower, work.<\/p>\n<p>He opened the cupboard, reached\u2026 and froze.<\/p>\n<p>The coffee cans were gone.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail frowned. He clearly remembered there was some left at the bottom last night, but today \u2014 empty.<\/p>\n<p>He opened another cupboard, checked the fridge, then looked back in the cupboard. No coffee.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, on the shelf were neatly arranged packs of tea. Different kinds: green, herbal, one with masala \u2014 the kind Anna liked.<\/p>\n<p>He heard light footsteps from the bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnna, where\u2019s the coffee?\u201d he asked, without turning around.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s finished,\u201d Anna replied calmly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou didn\u2019t buy any?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She appeared in the doorframe, adjusting her robe.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo,\u201d she said softly, as if already enjoying his reaction.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail slowly turned around.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna shrugged.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have my budget. And I don\u2019t drink coffee.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He squinted, trying to catch sarcasm in her voice, but in his wife\u2019s eyes was only calm confidence.<\/p>\n<p>She walked over to the table, took her cup of fragrant tea, and took a slow sip.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail watched her, feeling a strange, unfamiliar sensation.<\/p>\n<p>Not anger.<\/p>\n<p>Not irritation.<\/p>\n<p>But some cold jab of realization.<\/p>\n<p>His familiar world no longer worked by the old rules.<\/p>\n<p>Lisa was standing in the kitchen doorway, quietly watching her parents.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have my budget. And I don\u2019t drink coffee.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mum said it with such a light smile, such calmness, that something inside Lisa shifted.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail was silent.<\/p>\n<p>He looked at his wife as if seeing her for the first time. Indifferent and confident. Not arguing, not outraged, not explaining \u2014 just stating a fact.<\/p>\n<p>Lisa had always been used to her mum taking care of everything. There was always \u201cWhat does dad like?\u201d \u201cDoes dad need lunch to take with him?\u201d \u201cDad can\u2019t live without coffee.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But today, those familiar phrases were gone.<\/p>\n<p>And Lisa suddenly realized: relationships aren\u2019t just about care. They\u2019re also about boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>She shifted her gaze from her father to her mother.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail stood by the cupboard, confused, as if he didn\u2019t know what to do anymore.<\/p>\n<p>He had never thought about how his coffee appeared. It just was. Like clean shirts in the mornings. Like dinner on the table.<\/p>\n<p>But now it wasn\u2019t there.<\/p>\n<p>Now, he was on the other side of care.<\/p>\n<p>And he didn\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n<p>A week passed.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail didn\u2019t notice the changes immediately. But one evening, after coming home from work, he stopped in the doorway of the living room and suddenly realized: something had changed.<\/p>\n<p>Anna was sitting in a chair, reading a book. She had a strange expression on her face \u2014 a slight concentration, a complete absence of fatigue.<\/p>\n<p>She looked\u2026 calm.<\/p>\n<p>Even younger.<\/p>\n<p>Evenings used to be different. Anna would grumble about him leaving things lying around. She would sigh irritably if he forgot to take out the trash. She would reproach him: \u00abYou\u2019re late again? I was waiting for you.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Now the silence in the house was different.<\/p>\n<p>She wasn\u2019t waiting for him anymore.<\/p>\n<p>She wasn\u2019t demanding, wasn\u2019t complaining, wasn\u2019t telling him what needed to be done.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail had always thought that financial freedom would make him happier.<\/p>\n<p>He thought that by splitting the budget, he would get rid of the constant discussions about \u201cwhat needs to be bought,\u201d \u201cwhat needs to be paid,\u201d \u201cwhen is the salary coming?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He wanted less responsibility.<\/p>\n<p>But instead, the house had become\u2026 colder.<\/p>\n<p>Not immediately, but gradually.<\/p>\n<p>He felt like something was missing \u2014 the familiar warmth, care, the little things that used to annoy him.<\/p>\n<p>And Anna was just living.<\/p>\n<p>Quietly, calmly, easily.<\/p>\n<p>And in that calmness, there was something frightening.<\/p>\n<p>Anna was sitting in the kitchen with a cup of tea, looking out the window.<\/p>\n<p>She caught herself thinking strange thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy am I so calm?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Evenings used to be hectic: prepare dinner, check what\u2019s in the fridge, think about what to buy tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Now, she just sat.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWas I really so attached to those household duties? Or was it just a habit?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She had always thought that taking care of the home was her responsibility. That if she didn\u2019t do it, no one else would.<\/p>\n<p>But it turned out you don\u2019t have to do it all.<\/p>\n<p>And the world didn\u2019t fall apart.<\/p>\n<p>She took another slow sip of tea, realizing how little time she used to spend on herself.<\/p>\n<p>She used to think about him. What he liked, what he needed, what irritated him.<\/p>\n<p>But now\u2026 now she cared only about what she needed.<\/p>\n<p>Because of that, the house became quieter.<\/p>\n<p>Lisa sat in her room, pretending to be busy with her homework. But in reality, she just didn\u2019t want to go out.<\/p>\n<p>She was annoyed by the pauses between her parents.<\/p>\n<p>Conversations that seemed to break off mid-sentence.<\/p>\n<p>Mum didn\u2019t ask anymore: \u201cHow are you, Misha?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad didn\u2019t throw out the usual: \u201cDid you make dinner?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>There was something strange, invisible, but cold between them.<\/p>\n<p>And Lisa could feel how it was changing the atmosphere in the house.<\/p>\n<p>She wanted to scream: \u201cJust talk already!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But she didn\u2019t know what exactly should be said in this conversation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou don\u2019t ask anymore how much money we have left,\u201d Mikhail said one evening.<\/p>\n<p>Anna looked at him calmly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShould I?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He frowned.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWell\u2026 you used to always ask.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She nodded, as if agreeing, but didn\u2019t say anything.<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail suddenly realized that his wife no longer discussed money with him.<\/p>\n<p>She used to always ask: when is the salary, how much can be spent on groceries, which bills need to be paid.<\/p>\n<p>Now \u2014 silence.<\/p>\n<p>He watched as Anna calmly brushed her hair in front of the mirror, slowly tying it into a ponytail.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t seem worried.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAre\u2026 you going to support yourself?\u201d he asked, not really knowing why.<\/p>\n<p>Anna smiled slightly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOf course.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail felt something unpleasant stir inside.<\/p>\n<p>He had always thought his wife depended on him financially. That she needed him to plan the budget.<\/p>\n<p>But now he suddenly realized: she wasn\u2019t expecting anything from him anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Anna, meanwhile, calmly thought:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe doesn\u2019t know I\u2019ve had a safety net for a long time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He thought he had control.<\/p>\n<p>But in reality, he had lost it a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>Anna was washing the dishes when Lisa carefully entered the kitchen.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMum\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna threw her a warm glance.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat, darling?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lisa fidgeted, rubbing the edge of her sleeve.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAren\u2019t we a family anymore?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna froze, holding a plate.<\/p>\n<p>Water was dripping down her fingers, but she didn\u2019t notice.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy do you think that?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lisa bit her lip.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBecause everything is\u2026 different now. You and Dad are acting strangely. Like strangers.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna slowly put the plate in the sink and wiped her hands with a towel.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019re still a family,\u201d she said, sitting next to her daughter. \u201cWe\u2019re just learning to live\u2026 in a new way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lisa didn\u2019t look convinced.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWasn\u2019t it wrong before?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna wanted to say \u201cI don\u2019t know,\u201d but suddenly realized that she did know.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBefore, I thought family meant you take care of others, even when you\u2019re tired. Now I\u2019m learning to take care of myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lisa frowned.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut then it\u2019s not a family anymore\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Anna swallowed.<\/p>\n<p>Those words lodged in her mind.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat if Lisa is right?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mikhail sat in the living room, fiddling with his phone.<\/p>\n<p>From the kitchen came the muffled voices of Anna, then Lisa.<\/p>\n<p>He couldn\u2019t hear the words, but he could feel the mood.<\/p>\n<p>They were speaking quietly, calmly.<\/p>\n<p>Without him.<\/p>\n<p>Dinners used to be noisy, with conversations and discussions. 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