{"id":4346,"date":"2024-07-17T21:12:22","date_gmt":"2024-07-17T21:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=4346"},"modified":"2024-07-17T21:12:22","modified_gmt":"2024-07-17T21:12:22","slug":"i-have-been-a-mistress-for-11-years-and-i-want-to-say-something-to-married-women-many-would-say-that-i-am-a-wretched-person-that-i-destroy-families-i-say-that-i-am","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=4346","title":{"rendered":"\u201cI have been a mistress for 11 years, and I want to say something to married women. Many would say that I am a wretched person, that I destroy families. 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I have never seen myself as \u2018the other woman,\u2019 especially since the relationship is so long-lasting. But I have the gift of turning lemons into lemonade.<\/p>\n<p>So, I thought of helping married women who want to understand why their husbands cheat on them. Believe it or not, it\u2019s about more than just sex.<\/p>\n<p>Men want their wives to be mothers, friends, and therapists to them. Be the woman he fell in love with before the wedding, the woman he truly fell for!<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Big Bear\u2019s\u2019 wife is an amazing mother to her children, but she is a friend, a therapist, and a terrible \u2018mother\u2019 to her husband. Believe it or not, most of the time I spend with \u2018Big Bear\u2019 is not about sex.<\/p>\n<p>We listen to jazz, drink wine, and discuss the news. I cherish every second spent with \u2018Big Bear,\u2019 knowing that I will disappear when his wife decides to change.<\/p>\n<p>When he leaves me, I will come across another \u2018wounded\u2019 man who needs a temporary band-aid.<\/p>\n<p>The best way to make women like me disappear is to consider my advice.<\/p>\n<p>But one more thing: the advice applies only if your husband married you because he loves you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to know why he chose to marry you,\u201d the mistress writes in the open letter she published on the internet!\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here\u2019s what the woman has to say to the cheated wives: \u201cMost women would describe me as a wretched person, a destroyer of marriages, but I believe&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4347,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4346","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>\u201cI have been a mistress for 11 years, and I want to say something to married women. 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