{"id":9422,"date":"2024-09-10T22:57:09","date_gmt":"2024-09-10T22:57:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=9422"},"modified":"2024-09-10T22:57:09","modified_gmt":"2024-09-10T22:57:09","slug":"my-busy-dad-never-spends-time-with-us-and-treats-mom-iike-a-servant-my-brother-i-taught-him-a-lesson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=9422","title":{"rendered":"My Busy Dad Never Spends Time with Us and Treats Mom Iike a Servant \u2014 My Brother &#038; I Taught Him a Lesson"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-9423 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459296981_825616093119999_1432784839268702694_n-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459296981_825616093119999_1432784839268702694_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459296981_825616093119999_1432784839268702694_n-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459296981_825616093119999_1432784839268702694_n-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459296981_825616093119999_1432784839268702694_n.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ever felt invisible at home? Like the person you&#8217;re supposed to look up to doesn\u2019t even know you exist? I\u2019m Irene, and this is how my brother and I taught our dad a lesson he\u2019d never forget.<\/p>\n<p>It was a typical Tuesday evening. I sat at the kitchen table with math homework, while my younger brother Josh lay on the living room floor, reading a comic. As usual, Dad came home, barely acknowledging us. &#8220;Hey,&#8221; he said, walking past us.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Where\u2019s my dinner?&#8221; he bellowed.<\/p>\n<p>Mom, looking frazzled, called back, &#8220;Coming, Carl. Just finishing the laundry.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dad grunted, settled on the couch with his PlayStation, and began playing. The sounds of his game drowned out everything else. I glanced at Josh, who rolled his eyes in silent agreement. This was our norm: Dad as king, Mom as a servant, and Josh and I as invisible.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-9424\" src=\"http:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/2cfd862f617a6fb8d664faf5f12014d2a10be19d87fb9d9b63fa3385e4e6aa21-300x200.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/2cfd862f617a6fb8d664faf5f12014d2a10be19d87fb9d9b63fa3385e4e6aa21-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/2cfd862f617a6fb8d664faf5f12014d2a10be19d87fb9d9b63fa3385e4e6aa21-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/2cfd862f617a6fb8d664faf5f12014d2a10be19d87fb9d9b63fa3385e4e6aa21.webp 992w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"Oh\">\n<h6 class=\"Nh\" data-testid=\"image-source\">A man holding a gaming console | Source: Pexels<\/h6>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"adv\">\n<div class=\"Ad-Container Re\">\n<div class=\"Uf\">The next evening, Dad\u2019s impatience boiled over. &#8220;Why are these magazines dusty?&#8221; he snapped at Mom, who looked exhausted.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&#8220;I\u2019m sorry, Carl. I\u2019ve been busy with work and\u2014&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dad cut her off. &#8220;I work too. I expect a clean house.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Mom did everything\u2014work, cooking, cleaning, and caring for us. Dad did little but work, eat, play games, and sleep. My blood boiled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s it,\u201d I muttered. I told Josh we needed to do something about Dad\u2019s behavior. He agreed, and we hatched a plan.<\/p>\n<p>The next day, we convinced Mom to take a spa day, promising to handle things at home. We raided Dad\u2019s closet for his shirts and ties. As 6 p.m. approached, we took our positions: Josh on the couch with a magazine and me near the door. My heart raced as Dad\u2019s car pulled into the driveway.<\/p>\n<p>When Dad walked in, he was stunned to see us dressed in his clothes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What&#8217;s going on?&#8221; he asked, bewildered.<\/p>\n<p>I mimicked his demanding tone. &#8220;I need my dinner.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Josh added, &#8220;And don\u2019t forget to clean the PlayStation.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dad was confused. \u201cWhat are you two doing?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I dropped the act. \u201cThis is how you treat us and Mom. You\u2019re always too busy for us and treat Mom like a servant.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad\u2019s expression shifted from confusion to realization. Just then, Mom walked in, surprised by the scene.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What\u2019s going on?&#8221; she asked.<\/p>\n<p>Dad, tears in his eyes, admitted, &#8220;I\u2019ve been a terrible husband and father. I\u2019m so sorry. I didn\u2019t realize how bad it was.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He walked into the kitchen, and we watched in shock as he began cooking. \u201cMaking dinner! Flatbread, anyone? Please, sit down.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Josh and I exchanged looks before joining Mom at the table. Dad served us dinner, apologizing for his neglect. He asked about our days, listened, and even offered to help me study for a big test.<\/p>\n<p>As we finished, Dad smiled genuinely. \u201cThank you for showing me how I was acting. I needed that wake-up call.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I felt warmth in my chest. \u201cWe\u2019re just glad you listened, Dad.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Josh grinned. \u201cAnd maybe now you\u2019ll join us for games?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad laughed, a hearty sound I\u2019d missed. \u201cDeal. But first, let\u2019s clean up together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As we washed dishes and cleaned up, I felt hopeful. It was just one night, but it was a start. 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