{"id":9591,"date":"2024-09-11T21:57:18","date_gmt":"2024-09-11T21:57:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=9591"},"modified":"2024-09-11T21:57:18","modified_gmt":"2024-09-11T21:57:18","slug":"my-overworked-dad-ignores-us-and-treats-mom-like-a-housekeeper-my-brother-and-i-showed-him-the-consequences","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/?p=9591","title":{"rendered":"My Overworked Dad Ignores Us and Treats Mom Like a Housekeeper \u2014 My Brother and I Showed Him the Consequences"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-9592 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459204452_500022632820757_8291833356607937697_n-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459204452_500022632820757_8291833356607937697_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459204452_500022632820757_8291833356607937697_n.jpg 513w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In our house, Dad was the king, and Mom was his servant. My brother Josh and I were practically invisible. My name is Irene, and this is how we decided to teach our workaholic father a lesson.<\/p>\n<p>It was a typical Tuesday evening. I was doing math homework at the kitchen table while Josh lay on the living room floor with his comic book. The clock ticked towards 6 p.m., and I braced for Dad\u2019s arrival.<\/p>\n<p>At 6 p.m., the front door swung open, and Dad trudged in, his briefcase in hand. He barely looked at us, instead calling out, \u201cMariam! Where\u2019s my dinner?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mom, looking frazzled, appeared from the laundry room. \u201cComing, Carl. Just finishing up the laundry.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad grunted and plopped down on the couch, immediately immersing himself in his PlayStation game. The familiar sounds of racing cars filled the room, drowning out everything else.<\/p>\n<p>Josh and I exchanged frustrated glances. This was our routine: Dad was absorbed in work and games, while Mom handled everything else, and we were invisible.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-9592\" src=\"http:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459204452_500022632820757_8291833356607937697_n-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459204452_500022632820757_8291833356607937697_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ezzuye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/459204452_500022632820757_8291833356607937697_n.jpg 513w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cEnough,\u201d I muttered, storming into the kitchen where Josh was grabbing a snack. \u201cWe need to show Dad how he\u2019s been treating us and Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Josh\u2019s eyes sparkled with mischief. \u201cWhat\u2019s the plan?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We hatched a plan. The next day, we convinced Mom to take a spa day, promising to handle everything at home. She agreed, clearly needing a break.<\/p>\n<p>As 6 p.m. approached, Josh and I raided Dad\u2019s closet for his shirts and ties. We dressed up in his oversized clothes, adding a touch of comedy to our act.<\/p>\n<p>When Dad came home, he froze at the sight of us. \u201cWhat\u2019s going on?\u201d he asked.<\/p>\n<p>I mimicked his usual demanding tone. \u201cI need my dinner.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Josh, engrossed in a magazine, added, \u201cAnd don\u2019t forget to clean up the PlayStation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad\u2019s confusion turned to realization as he watched us. \u201cIs this how you see me?\u201d he asked softly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, Dad. You ignore us and treat Mom like a servant,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p>Josh chimed in, \u201cMom works hard too and takes care of everything. You only complain and demand.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad\u2019s shoulders slumped. Just then, Mom walked in, looking relaxed. She took in the scene and asked, \u201cWhat\u2019s going on?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad, tears in his eyes, said, \u201cI\u2019ve been a terrible husband and father. I\u2019m sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He walked to the kitchen, and we watched as he began cooking. \u201cMaking dinner! Flatbread, anyone?\u201d he called out.<\/p>\n<p>Josh and I exchanged stunned looks but joined Mom at the table. As Dad served us, he apologized again. \u201cI\u2019ll do better,\u201d he promised.<\/p>\n<p>During dinner, Dad engaged with us, asking about our day and listening. It felt strange but wonderful.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo, how\u2019s school?\u201d Dad asked.<\/p>\n<p>I mentioned a big test coming up. \u201cMaybe I could help you study?\u201d Dad offered.<\/p>\n<p>Surprised, I agreed. As we finished dinner, Dad smiled genuinely. \u201cThank you for showing me how I was acting.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I felt a warm glow. \u201cWe\u2019re just glad you listened.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Josh grinned. \u201cAnd maybe you\u2019ll join us for games?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad laughed. \u201cDeal. But first, let\u2019s clean up together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As we cleared the table and washed dishes, I felt hopeful. It was just one night, but it was a start. For the first time in years, we felt like a family again.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In our house, Dad was the king, and Mom was his servant. My brother Josh and I were practically invisible. 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