Has your partner ever started acting like a stranger? Mine did. Jason, my husband of five years, became glued to his phone and avoided me as if I had the plague. Then, out of nowhere, he sent a bizarre text demanding I bleach my hair.
Gone were the lingering kisses and surprise date nights; now it was all clipped conversations and late-night “work calls.” After reheating takeout for the third time, I finally cracked. “Is everything okay between us?” I asked, but he just shrugged.
Later, I received his text: “You need to bleach your hair blonde. Make an appointment tomorrow.” Just a command, no explanation.
Curiosity got the best of me, so I decided to check his phone. I found a chat titled “How to Dominate Women?” filled with manipulative advice. My heart raced. This was not the man I married.
Feeling empowered, I decided to play along. I made an appointment and transformed into a blonde bombshell. When I walked into the living room, Jason’s shock was priceless. He gaped at me, speechless.
“Why did you actually do it?” he stammered. I could see the realization dawning on him.
“Maybe you should think twice before giving commands,” I replied, standing my ground.
After a tense silence, he finally spoke. “I’m sorry. I didn’t mean it like that. I’ve been… struggling.” He explained how he felt pressure to conform to a certain image and got caught up in toxic advice.
We had a long talk. He promised to change and work on himself, but I made it clear that I wouldn’t be pushed around anymore.
Only time will tell if he means it, but for now, I feel stronger than ever.
