When my mom passed away, I wasn’t thinking about money or property. I was thinking about her laugh, how she always smelled like lavender, how she left little notes around the house reminding herself to buy milk or call Aunt Diane.
But then the will was read.
She left her house—the house we grew up in—to me. Not to both of us. Just me.
My brother, Devin, sat there in stunned silence. Then he laughed, like it was some kind of joke. “That’s not right,” he said, shaking his head. “Mom wouldn’t do that.”
But she had.
I didn’t ask for it. I didn’t expect it. But for whatever reason, she chose to leave it to me. Maybe because Devin had a house of his own, and I was still renting. Maybe because he had always been closer to Dad, and I had been the one who stayed with her after the divorce.
It didn’t matter why. It was written in black and white.
That didn’t stop Devin from arguing.
“She must’ve meant for us to share it,” he insisted. “You know that, right? We should sell it and split the money.”
But I didn’t want to sell. This was Mom’s house. My house now.
Devin’s frustration turned into something colder. He started bringing up old fights from when we were kids, twisting every childhood argument into proof that I didn’t deserve this.
Then, one morning, I went to check on the house—and the locks had been changed.
I stood there, key in hand, staring at the door like maybe I had made a mistake. Maybe I had gone to the wrong house. But no. The number was the same. The porch light still flickered the way it always had. This was my house.
And I couldn’t get in.
I knocked, then banged. No answer. I tried calling Devin, but it went straight to voicemail. My hands were shaking as I pulled up my phone and started looking up locksmiths. Then I stopped myself.
No. This wasn’t just some lock issue. This was something bigger.
I called the police.
By the time the officer arrived—a no-nonsense woman named Officer Grant—I had managed to track down a text Devin had sent me the night before. You’re not thinking straight. We’ll figure this out.
I showed it to her, and she nodded. “Sounds like your brother might’ve taken matters into his own hands.”
She knocked firmly, and this time, the door opened.
Devin looked surprised at first. Then, when he saw me, his face twisted into something unreadable. “Oh, come on,” he groaned. “You really called the cops on your own brother?”
Officer Grant didn’t look amused. “Sir, are you currently occupying this property without legal permission?”
Devin’s jaw tightened. “It’s my mom’s house.”
“No,” I said. “It’s my house.”
He let out a bitter laugh. “Mom never would’ve wanted this. She would’ve wanted us to share it.”
“But she didn’t put that in the will,” I said. My voice was shaking. I hated that. I hated that I still cared so much about what he thought.
Officer Grant sighed. “Sir, unless you can show proof that you have legal ownership or permission to be here, you’re trespassing.”
Devin crossed his arms, digging his heels in. “What, you’re going to arrest me? For staying in the house I grew up in?”
She raised an eyebrow. “Would you like me to?”
Something in Devin’s face flickered. He was angry, but he wasn’t stupid. He muttered something under his breath and stepped aside.
I followed the officer inside. The house smelled different. Devin had moved things around. Some of Mom’s decorations were shoved in a corner, replaced by his things. A duffel bag sat on the couch.
He had been staying here.
I turned to him, my chest tight. “You changed the locks.”
He shrugged. “I figured you weren’t thinking straight.”
Officer Grant cleared her throat. “Sir, you need to leave.”
For a moment, I thought he was going to argue. But then he grabbed his duffel bag and stormed past me, muttering under his breath. He didn’t look back.
I should’ve felt victorious. I didn’t.
After Devin left, I sat in the living room, staring at the walls. This didn’t feel like a win. It felt like a loss all over again. Losing Mom, losing my brother in a different way.
I took a deep breath and did something I never thought I’d do.
I called him.
It rang four times before he picked up. “What do you want?”
I hesitated. “I just… I don’t want this to be how things end between us.”
He let out a bitter laugh. “You called the cops on me.”
“You changed the locks on me first.”
Silence. Then, softer, “I just—I don’t understand. Why would Mom do this?”
I sighed. “I don’t know, Dev. But fighting like this isn’t going to change anything.”
He didn’t say anything. But he didn’t hang up, either.
I took a deep breath. “Look, I don’t want to sell the house. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be a part of it. If you want to come over for dinner sometime… we can talk.”
He scoffed, but it wasn’t as sharp as before. “Dinner, huh?”
“Yeah.”
He was quiet for a long moment. Then, finally, “I’ll think about it.”
The first time Devin came over, it was awkward. We didn’t talk much. But then he started coming around more. He helped me fix the leaky faucet in the kitchen. We sat on the porch one evening, reminiscing about childhood summers.
It wasn’t perfect. But it was something.
One night, he looked at me and said, “Mom really loved this house, huh?”
I nodded. “Yeah. She did.”
He sighed, rubbing the back of his neck. “I guess I just didn’t want to feel like I was losing it. Losing her.”
I swallowed the lump in my throat. “You’re not. We’re not.”
He nodded, staring out at the yard. “Thanks for not giving up on me.”
I smiled. “You’re my brother. I never could.”
Sometimes, life doesn’t give us what we expect. Sometimes, we lose things we thought were ours, and sometimes, we gain things we didn’t realize we needed. The house wasn’t just about ownership. It was about family, about finding a way back to each other despite the hurt.
Mom would’ve wanted that.
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